Is your relationship in jeopardy? Are you about to lose your long-term relationship, or are you headed for divorce? Has your partner dropped this emotional nuclear bomb on you; "I love you, but I'm not in love with you anymore," or what about this one; "I'm in love with someone else?" Have you been completely blindsided and utterly shocked by your partner's unwillingness to reconcile your relationship? Does your partner blame you for the failing relationship while accepting very little, if any, responsibility whatsoever? Well, you're not alone! This type of behavior is inherent to every failing relationship.
Of course you want to save your relationship. Believe me; I understand how important your relationship is, and I also know just how painful the thought of losing it can be. I'll bet you've been riding an emotional roller coaster, lying awake at night, losing sleep, and worrying, incessantly, about your failing relationship. Haven't you? When faced with losing a relationship, generally speaking, fear and insecurity are running high. Unfortunately, that causes most women to speak and act in a counterproductive way, which, in turn, often destroys their relationship, completely. The question is; what should you say and do to save a relationship?
Well, there are two secrets principles to saving a relationship that every woman should know - two, time-tested and proven, principles that I've used, for the past 7 years, to help women around the globe save their relationships. And, I'm going to share them with you. Let's take a look at principle number one. First and foremost, you must take responsibility for your negative contributions to the relationship. What would you say if I told you that two simple phrases can dramatically shift the momentum in your relationship? Well, they can! Those two phrases are; I agree. And, I understand. Now, don't get all overzealous here and start agreeing with everything your partner says or does - especially if he's been unfaithful! Instead, you should agree with and understand the correct and appropriate issues that have undermined the relationship. And, you must address them with your partner. I call this a "Statement of Agreement." You'll be completely amazed and dumfounded at how this technique will shift the momentum in your relationship. But, saving your relationship doesn't end here. This is only the first principle. You have one more to go!
The second principle is unleashing your feminine power through personal growth and development. Love is giving in a relationship, but only if you can give it to yourself first. Consequently, self-love is a critical component to a magical relationship. It may take two to tango, but unless you have learned how to rumba with yourself, you'll soon find the dance floor of life to be a very lonely place! In simple terms, love can not be forced, manipulated or caged. Love can only be attracted. So, pleading, begging, prodding, coercing and manipulating, inevitably, will leave you unloved and alone. Love is like a magnet. If you push with opposing energy, it eludes you. If you attract with like energy, it is drawn to you. For women, the challenge is always mastering the male element or building unstoppable, strength and self-confidence. And, when it comes to love, there is nothing more compelling to a man than self-confidence or feminine power.
Bottom line, put these two secret principles into play, and the results will be simply stunning and completely mind-blowing.
Regards,
David Roppo
Life Coach -Author - Speaker
David Roppo
Life Coach -Author - Speaker
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